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原帖由 jazzy 于 2008-7-27 16:06 发表
* P3 P: s+ k: |( V" u# B更正一个用词问题
( T  o) x% r% A' qAccording to the discussion with an English usage forum, they told me that the person who start a new thread ( topic, article) should be called "author" , "thread starter" ,not the " ...

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虽然这个话题是我挑起来的，但我还是觉得应该不再谈论了。每个主题尽量不要偏题。谈“pressure”那就是pressure 如果是文化差异，我觉得另外开一个帖也许好一些呢。
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要不我们现在增加一个 文化差异的hot discusstion吧

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原帖由 yolanda1188 于 2008-7-27 15:54 发表
' Z) }' w- ?* L; o' Q4 i$ N9 sI also live under great pressure,mostly from my work.Before reading your passage,I never though about the classification of my work.Now,I feel that we should do the similar work.) q1 l/ c( V& h3 S
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鉴于帖子很多，你在引用以前的回复时（尤其是很多页前），建议尽量用双重引用，一方面标题上写引用XXX楼
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因为我刚才去找我自己写的那一段就翻了半天。呵呵

haha, there is a chinese saying:易得无价宝，难得有情郎。it is really hard to find a guy who loves you selflessly. for me, as i said, it is just a joke.we can not always expect others to do everything for us unconditionaly.  but we should believe that love is still existing in our life.because this world is rather ugly and dark ,at lease love can give us hope and passion.

i think profits and pressure is directly proportional.

Maybe, I do not totally agree with you. Yeah, as you said "we can not always expect others to do everything for us unconditionaly", I believe love is a mutual thing. When we gain, we must think about paying. The world is changed, hardly any lover not looking at your asset. Even your relationships would like to give much concern about your wallet size. But that doesn't mean you can't find a man loving you, and preparing to do everything for you, even dying for you. I am a good existing example. Would you like a try?

haha, you would like to die for me?? haha,don't pull my leg.& b7 W* r( t, G9 ?$ s6 M
what is love? i think love is partake in each other's joys and sorrows. love also means responsibility. now, money is also a part of it, but not essential.& r2 b5 \7 Y$ z2 N; E9 l; }
for me, now, i don't care about money. however, i cannot assure you what will happen to me some years later. everything is changing rapidly, including me.

he must be lying when  a man say that he can die for woman.   
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"she" once had the same idea as your.:  "i don't care about money. however, i cannot assure you what will happen to me some years later. everything is changing rapidly, including me."  
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Come on, do I have said a word that "I wish to die for you"?  We even didn't know each other. I only know everyone in this forum call you Yoyo. I am afraid that there would be some misunderstandings, or I have used the wrong word causing the misunderstandings. I mean I can die for my lover, no matter whom she is, but must be my lover first. It's very polite of you not to say "get away, you blackguard." But all that would harm my reputation. So I must point out that, when I was saying "do you want a try", I only mean "do you want a try to love a man heart and soul who loves you and deserves your love, do you want a try to find such a person?" Even though I am not sure whether I am the very man.

I have just graduated from university for one year, I  really don't know how to choose my job direction, in my latter position, I find my boss have some problem in his personal ethnic. so I leave that company. i want to enter China-foreign cooperation CO., LTD  or whole foreign owned CO., LTD.  but i still work in the private company. (i find some problem , the boss take all of his personal things to the company and ask you to do, i am very angry. i can not understand ,and withstand him.)what the boss promised is blank, and means nothing. and always delay our salary without any notice.(sometimes the period is very long, for all most one month.

Pressure  is also the power of our work, isn't it?

Different companys got different bosses. Different bosses got different acting patterns. We work for them, but we also can choose whom we will work for. There are truely some very good private enterprise owners. I think the problem is not whether you work in a joint venture company or a multi-national corporations, but exactly in your own heart. Dreaming of being in a good company, doing little things and enjoying high salary will harm yourself. Trust me. Do not think about what you are doing now, think about what you can do. Try to enjoy yourself.

i used to have a strong pressure in my work hours and sometimes even had  nightmares during the nights in my bed, since i was just entered the corporation and nearly have nothing familiar. strange colleagues, different environment and strict managers made me upset. i can still memorize the situation the first time the manager asked me to be familiar with my product. in order to make me better understand the details of the items , the manager asked me to recite the consignment sheet, which consists of many various prices, complex labels(shipping marks) and different quantites of each item. however, i paid little attention to that since i thought that of no importance, for which i was blamed. the manager was so strict at that time that i was startled and cried at once.
/ ~4 h7 t2 z  @0 R5 u7 S. }" A                but now, after a month's experience, i am able to handle  well with the things that the manager has asked me to do(of course some basic things) and he has no excuse to blame me any more. it seems that the pressure is gone suddenly .
6 O9 J6 z3 x7 n; W& k- y5 V              in a word , the pressure is often cause by the lacking of experience, "practice makes perfect", to consummate yourself through practicing many times, the pressure will stay away from you!

I am a new commer of international business. So the pressure I face may not be said as real pressure. I have a poor memory which might only I think so. As a new commer, it's a process of learning.  So I always take a notebook at hand to write things they tell me. Even I am a serious-minded person, I will make mistakes. I am so afraid of making mistakes! Even though, I have a positve mind toward making mistakes. I will try my best to correct them and reduce cost as much as possible.
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I am young. Travelling around the world is my stupid dream and it is difficult to realize. No matter if I can realze it or how difficult it will be, when thinking of it, I feel so good and better from my pressure. Have a good rest, sleep and dream, tomorrow is another day.

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原帖由 jazzy 于 2008-7-28 11:40 发表
- l* X) }. o4 r' k# T* L$ PMaybe, I do not totally agree with you. Yeah, as you said "we can not always expect others to do everything for us unconditionaly", I believe love is a mutual thing. When we gain, we must think about  ...

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$ w" b6 r$ H0 L6 T5 l& ~请问这个用法有没有问题啊？

我也不知道是不是有问题，哈哈。随口出来的，但我也找不出有什么问题。哈哈！